- A balance between junk food and healthy food.
- A balance between the kids having free time and having organized activities.
- A balance between "I want that purse" and "But college is expensive"...stupid responsible saving
- A balance between "it's not worth the fight" with my kids and "I'll fight this all day long with you"
The weird thing is that my family and I seem to need clean clothes, dishes to eat off of, non-sticky floors, and so on. Another weird thing is that I NEED to write! So, I make up schedules. I love schedules. I love grabbing an index card and writing it out like, "9-9:15 Dishes, 9:15-9:30 Laundry, 9:30-10:30 Real Job stuff, 10:30-11 Write". Of course, inevitably the air conditioner stops working at 9:07 and the whole day is shot, but I tried!!
P.S. I make a cameo appearance in Esther's blog today! Go see! Click here!
Go you good thing!!! It's such a struggle to balance it all, isn't it. Let me know if you find the answer :)
ReplyDeleteRach
On my writing days I will 'officially' tell myself it's OK to let the kitchen be a complete mess, because I can make emptying and reloading a dishwasher (and stopping halfway to do a million other little things) take me all day.
ReplyDeleteI agree, it's a process of balance, prioritization, and compromise! Especially when there are husbands and children involved.
Well, you had me for the first little bit - but then you started talking about 'schedules' and I thought, No way! You're on your own there, Megan.
ReplyDeleteBut all the best with it! I hope it works for you. Me... Well... on a whim, I think I'd better go and mop the floor. (We have vistors coming tomorrow - so needs, must. :D )
Schedules are cool. I should have one to balance my writing, university, and cleaning... But I discovered something important today. I was trying to figure out how to continue with my story, so I folded some laundry and it came to me as I folded! So, housework can act as a time-away-from-computer time-for-inspiration!
ReplyDeleteLove the blog and the family!
ReplyDeleteThanks for joining me, Megan, lovely to see you there.
ReplyDeleteNon-sticky floors are required? Dang! ;)
ReplyDeleteCongrats on getting a mention on Esther's blog. That house looked familiar-- I think I may have had a field trip there once. Glad you had a good time!
You sound like me and every writer out there. Fortunately my husband is very forgiving. I do, though, sneak in housework as a break. It's a great way to get moving after sitting on my butt for so long. :)
ReplyDeleteI am so with you on this one, except for the scheduling, I'm out quite a lot. No week is the same really. I have found something works this week though. Blog/read blogs first thing in the morning and sporadically during the day. Take writing away from the pc and do a bit during the day and again at night. (So I shouldn't be on here now oops!)I like what someone said at Writeoncon, let one thing ride each week and change that one thing, so you don't get too behind. Tips are always welcome, keep them coming!
ReplyDelete